This article originally appeared on the Gottman Relationship Blog All relationships, even the most successful ones, have conflict. It is unavoidable. Fortunately, our research shows that it’s not the appearance of conflict, but rather how it’s managed that predicts the success or failure of a relationship. We say “manage” conflict rather than “resolve,” because relationship conflict is …
This article originally appeared on the Gottman Relationship Blog The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse is a metaphor depicting the end of times in the New Testament. They describe conquest, war, hunger, and death respectively. We use this metaphor to describe communication styles that, according to our research, can predict the end of a relationship. …
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This article originally appeared on the Gottman Relationship Blog In a long-term study of 130 newlywed couples, Dr. John Gottman discovered that men who allow their wives to influence them have happier marriages and are less likely to divorce. This critical skill is not limited to heterosexual couples. It’s essential in same-sex relationships as well, but the …
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This article originally appeared on the Gottman Relationship Blog In an amazing book titled The Normal Bar, authors Chrisanna Northrup, Pepper Schwartz, and James Witte conducted an online study with 70,000 people in 24 countries. They were curious about what might be different about couples who said that they had a great sex life, compared to couples …
Did I get your attention? No matter how you look at it to be really successful in this life, life isn’t about you! Except it is about you ! It is about you becoming something. And you can’t become something on your own, by yourself. It’s true! That’t right! Life is about others. Helping others! …